Kissing a girl is difficult if you are a stranger to her. If you don't want a major slap in the face or be thrown out in the place where you did the deed, do not ever attempt in kissing a girl you didn't know or barely knew.
Kissing a girl has its stages, the most important thing to remember is do not rush things. If it's your first time to take out the girl, a peck in the cheek is appropriate. It is just a sign of welcome or something like that. If you already developed something special with the girl, this is the time when you are permitted to kiss her in the lips or do some tongue acrobatics. Other than that, be respectful, and this will be greatly rewarded.
The problem lies if the scenario shows that it is the first time you are kissing her. One should not immediately kiss a girl unexpectedly. You must set the right mood to do this properly. Here are the common steps on how to kiss a girl.
First, take her to a romantic place. Be sure that you are alone so that the girl will have no reservations or will not be shy or uncomfortable. An example is sitting in the beach while the sun sets or having a dinner at the roof top of a hotel. It does not need to be expensive or classy, just be creative. This is the most basic step on how to kiss a girl.
Second, make her comfortable. Do not ever think about harassing a girl, as this will definitely drive her away. Create an interesting conversation with her and make sure that she is at ease with you.
Third, make some romantic moves. Holding hands is one way to tell a girl that you like her and this will help you initiate the kiss. Hold her gently. Some girls don't want a guy to hold her hand, unless they have a special understanding with the guy. If this happens to you, go back to what you are doing before you held her hand and just explain why you did that. A great line would be "I just want to know how soft your hand is". On the other hand, if the girl permits you to hold her hand, hold it lightly just to let her know that you are with her.
Fourth, if the third step is successful, move gently closer to her. In doing this, you must be careful not to scare her. She already knows that you are going to kiss her, but you must not feel her uneasy. A guy can feel if the girl wants to kiss her back. An example of this scenario is when you are moving close to her and she moves away. The best way to know if she's interested in the kiss is to stare at her and if she stares back, then you know what's next.
Fifth, go for it. Slowly lean in for the kiss. Start with a smack on the lips and then proceed to a longer kiss then. When both of you are ready, do a more passionate kiss.
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